'Grease' is The Word



"I consider myself less of a 'lying sack of shit' and
more of a consummate 'people pleaser.'"

Socios are successful because of one important tactic; telling  people
what they want to hear. Making them feel good so they're more easily
used...open to the socio's machinations.

A seemingly innocuous--and even desirable--helpful quality, if it
were more than a means to its own end. But it's the turning of the
worm with these folks.

Like all calculations, it's designed to fatten up the pig before
leading it to slaughter. To manipulate and draw in the target as
part of the machinations, long term and deliberate.

The more desirable and ebullient the socio makes themselves,
the more people desire to be in their presence....to trust them...
to want to be around them.

Whether the sociopath is sporting a lie or the absolute truth,
whether they believe the words falling out of their mouth or
disagree vehemently, it makes no difference. It's all about the
usage of words (or emotions or ideas) to create what's needed
for their ultimate plan.

And you can bet it doesn't involve the interests of anyone else.

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Ann Coulter on Calling Obama a Retard

Here's a great picture of the epitome' of a sociopath. No, don't avert
your eyes to avoid a Halloween scare; she always looks this frightening.

Completely ignorant and yet pompous and pretentious, even belligerent,
all the way. Angry and frustrated and blaming everyone else around her for
her stupidity, she's a constant victim--and an outraged bitch--all at once.

It's too bad the word 'retard' is so inappropriate to use, because the
intended disrespect behind it certainly fits Ms. Coulter to a 'T'...except that
using it would be horribly unfair to actual developmentally disabled people.

She's a liar who knows full well the impact of what she did, but chooses to
take no responsibility for it (or the hurt it causes many people) and instead
again plays victim by portraying herself as someone who can't make 'innocent'
remarks without being 'unfairly' lambasted and critiqued.

You can't have it both ways, but sociopaths sure want it; Act like a brutal bully
and say and do whatever you like, and still want to be popular and unmolested.

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Chameleons

"Who do you want me to be?"
(I'll do it long enough to hook you!)

A narcissist will portray themselves as an expert, a super hero,

a successful person in any field broached in a discussion. But

don't subscribe to it; they're anything but objective or honest.

They follow their own agenda.

Even kindness is a ruse.

"It was like he knew what I was thinking; he said all the things

I wanted to hear."

Psychologically anticipating and then meeting  a need is
a specialty of the sociopath. You are  a tool to be used...
and if you see through their ruse then they will look to
elict empathy by playing the sympathy card, or try and
control you by raging and/or shaming you.

Whatever tools they can use, they will. Any means to an end.
That's all a human being--and their emotions--are to a socio.

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Nothing is as it Seems

A narcissist works on lies, myths, illusions;

they lie from the ground up,

or they distort what actually is.

They see right through you and everyone

else; they know what makes us tick and they use

that information to pull sway.

They psychologically decimate others--

but surreptitiously, never obvious, so

as to avoid suspicion and make you doubt

yourself, never them.

(And they do target the people they

think they have the best chance of

working over to do their worst work.)

Hell, they can even convince you they're

a good person who cares about you

while they're instilling doubt and undermining you.

That kind of insidiousness is what gives them joy.

(Don't feel bad; this is what they do,

it's what they're good at.

Most people fall prey to their lies.

Think of these people like a super-virus;

even the healthiest person's body isn't

strong enough to stand up to the illness!)

Just like a virus, the entry is

undetected. The takeover is slow

and insidious; you don't even know you're

sick til your feverish and falling over.

It's too late to prevent--

you now have to purge.

The only cure for a sociopath is to get them out of

your head, your life, your surroundings.

That's the only cure; you can't make them

well or change them, but

you can make yourself well by

getting rid of them.

Most importantly, as the

great Benjamin Franklin said,

"Believe none of what you hear,

and half of what you see."

With a narcissist, don't believe

a god damned thing you see, hear, or think.

They've specially targeted everything

they do, say, and act to seduce and use

you. They know what your Achilles'

heel is. Beware.

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