Friday, May 31, 2013

'Grease' is The Word

"I consider myself less of a 'lying sack of shit' and
more of a consummate 'people pleaser.'"
Socios are successful because of one important tactic; telling  people
what they want to hear. Making them feel good so they're more easily to the socio's machinations.

A seemingly innocuous--and even desirable--helpful quality, if it
were more than a means to its own end. But it's the turning of the
worm with these folks.

Like all calculations, it's designed to fatten up the pig before
leading it to slaughter. To manipulate and draw in the target as
part of the machinations, long term and deliberate.

The more desirable and ebullient the socio makes themselves,
the more people desire to be in their trust them...
to want to be around them.

Whether the sociopath is sporting a lie or the absolute truth,
whether they believe the words falling out of their mouth or
disagree vehemently, it makes no difference. It's all about the
usage of words (or emotions or ideas) to create what's needed
for their ultimate plan.

And you can bet it doesn't involve the interests of anyone else.


Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Suited for the Part

One of the most basic parts of a sociopath is that they can
'read' and suss out people--figure what makes them work,
and thereby what will also motivate them and control them.

This skill makes them great assets in fields such as managing
political campaigns, controlling offices filled with workers
(peons), and running death camps.

They can also just as easily get high on power working in
community affairs, heading up committees and being coaches
for ball teams or being on boards. Because they're willing to
take on jobs no one else wants with such gusto, there is a
good bit of having their way with the rules, since others are
unwilling to step in and take over.

And power--however much or little it may be--is the true desire
of someone who already feels they deserve to be in control
of other human beings....and will say and do anything to
get in a position to use it.


Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Drawn Badly

Anotherr trait of those of us drawn to (and targeted by)
a socio or narc is someone so scarred by past hurt that
we seek out (either consciously or subconsciously) the
affections of those not capable of giving them.

There is a safety in being drawn to the unattainable and
emotionally standoffish that our self-protection seeks out.