'Grease' is The Word



"I consider myself less of a 'lying sack of shit' and
more of a consummate 'people pleaser.'"

Socios are successful because of one important tactic; telling  people
what they want to hear. Making them feel good so they're more easily
used...open to the socio's machinations.

A seemingly innocuous--and even desirable--helpful quality, if it
were more than a means to its own end. But it's the turning of the
worm with these folks.

Like all calculations, it's designed to fatten up the pig before
leading it to slaughter. To manipulate and draw in the target as
part of the machinations, long term and deliberate.

The more desirable and ebullient the socio makes themselves,
the more people desire to be in their presence....to trust them...
to want to be around them.

Whether the sociopath is sporting a lie or the absolute truth,
whether they believe the words falling out of their mouth or
disagree vehemently, it makes no difference. It's all about the
usage of words (or emotions or ideas) to create what's needed
for their ultimate plan.

And you can bet it doesn't involve the interests of anyone else.

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Suited for the Part

One of the most basic parts of a sociopath is that they can

'read' and suss out people--figure what makes them work,

and thereby what will also motivate them and control them.

This skill makes them great assets in fields such as managing

political campaigns, controlling offices filled with workers

(peons), and running death camps.

They can also just as easily get high on power working in

community affairs, heading up committees and being coaches

for ball teams or being on boards. Because they're willing to

take on jobs no one else wants with such gusto, there is a

good bit of having their way with the rules, since others are

unwilling to step in and take over.

And power--however much or little it may be--is the true desire

of someone who already feels they deserve to be in control

of other human beings....and will say and do anything to

get in a position to use it.

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Drawn Badly

Anotherr trait of those of us drawn to (and targeted by)

a socio or narc is someone so scarred by past hurt that

we seek out (either consciously or subconsciously) the

affections of those not capable of giving them.

There is a safety in being drawn to the unattainable and

emotionally standoffish that our self-protection seeks out.

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"Zero. Zero Fucks Given."

Kids who pretend to be Trayvon Martin,

dead on the ground...as a 'joke.'

Kids who witness--and participate in--rape

and then pass the film of said rape around

like a chain e-mail. And justify their actions.

And express outrage at being inconvenienced

by legal actions brought about by their evil.

Kids who spend more time desensitizing on a

p.c. than dealing with other humans.

Who relish the bloodthirsty actions of a

game, and watch deadly images endlessly

at a time when the judgement centers of their

brains haven't developed.

Harassment and bullying and deception

via social media tools. Playing with people's emotions,

'catfishing,' fake-flirting with lonely kids,

spreading rumors.

Thugs. Rapists. Connivers. Cheats.

Assailants. Murderers. Torturers.

Excessive and dangerous 'pranks.'

Remorselessness.

Apathy.

This is our culture, now; our new normal.

It's who we--en masse-- have become, even as the

polar  opposite facade of being

well-mannered and socially well-connected

is maintained.

This is how we live; A world of sick, duplicitous,

self-condoning, mercenary, shameless, excuse-

making, justify-my-shit-at-all-costs world of disgusting

liars and thieves.

Coddled endlessly, given access to

everything, exposed to all manner of depravity--and,

conversely, neglected and unsupervised by equally

self-absorbed care-givers who are not developing

and exhibiting nurturing, caring traits.

IN a world devoid of personal connection,

how could we expect any other result to

manifest?

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Just Rewards



"Strap yourself in, ya tired old bitch!
I've got Nine whole god damned
Circles in this fiery inferno to
give you the tour of!
Who knew conservative politics
was the wrong way to go!?!?"

www.GeorgiaUnity.blogspot.com



Wheel Keeps on Spinning



The Wheel of Life

 People who say hopeful and blissful and meditative silly shit
like "Let's focus on the good in the world," and "Nobody's all
bad," or "so-and-so is just misunderstood," or "There's hope for
the human race," do NOT feel that way or say those things
because they really believe it or because it's true.

They say them because if we acknowledge in our inner self the
true sick, twisted, depraved, reprobate, decrepit nature of
this race of vulturous, duplicitous, sacks of shit we are, we'd all
be too god damned depressed and suicidal to go on or function.

And it's the ones who act the nicest or the most above-it-all
that you most have to watch out for. The inability to trust or
believe or have faith in those who are selling a positive image
that we believe in is some soul-devouring shit. So most keep
believing the lies even after they've been proven false.

We just so desperately need a beautiful lie, a false promise to
hold onto. Thieves, con men, sadists, crazy people; that's
what this world offers. But those guys are not the ones who
take you by surprise; mostly you see them coming. It's the ones
who smile and cajole and play the friend or show compassion
as a lover that gain special access to do the most damage.

And there's enough variety of insidious bullshit that you can live a
hundred years and not see all the many ways it hides and manifests
itself. Which is of course why people gloss over it...ignore it....
make light of it....and frame it as pardonable, insignificant, and
harmonious, changeable.

Cuz it sure as shit ain't...and that's a deal breaker.

Ironies

A sociopath

has the ability to

impress folks

with the idea of

being better than

two people...

while in truth

ending up being

only half a person.

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